Ken Capone, Director of People on the Go of Maryland

Jeneva is delighted to interview Ken Capone, Director of People On the Go of Maryland, a statewide self-advocacy organization for people with disabilities. The Maryland State Assembly often turns to Ken to elucidate disability issues in its legislative deliberations. 

Tell me about yourself.  
I was the second youngest of six children with working parents. Growing up, all I knew was that I had plenty of siblings (three brothers and two sisters) and friends to play with! Being part of the community would not have been possible had my parents followed the doctor's advice and institutionalized me. In those days, doctors recommended institutional placement as the only way to care properly for a child born with a disability. I am grateful that my parents made the decision to raise me at home. 

I graduated from high school in 1983 with my peers. After high school, I set my sights on post-secondary education and work. Today I have a full time job; I live on my own. I utilize the state Medicaid waiver program and am able to self-direct my services and supports. I have four direct support professionals who assist me with my daily needs. I started my career as a Quality of Life Surveyor on the Ask Me Project in Maryland. This launched my career in policy and advocacy for people with intellectual and developmental disabilities; I am now the director for People On the Go of Maryland.

Tell me about your disabilities and the adaptations you need to function in an able-bodied world. 
My diagnosis is Cerebral Palsy. I rely on staff for my personal needs. Since I don’t have use of my voice, I need technology to help with that. I use a communication device (an iPad) to speak. I use a “headstick” to type; it acts like my hands. I also control my power wheelchair with my headstick. I have an accessible van so I can go work on a daily basis and get to where I need to be.

 Tell me about People on the Go, and how you became involved.
People On the Go of Maryland is the state-wide advocacy organization for people with intellectual and developmental disabilities. We have been in existence for 30 years, working on inclusion for all. Through grass roots efforts and strategic partnerships, POG has been instrumental in advancing the rights of people with disabilities throughout the state and around the country. We respect the individuality of our members and are committed to making inclusion a priority so everyone feels empowered, valued, and heard.

I got involved in the group by word of mouth. I attended monthly meetings, and I started doing more with the group, such as testifying on legislation and participating in training. 

When POG received a grant from the Maryland Developmental Disability Council, I was  asked by the group if I would be the leader of the group and the rest is H-I-S-T-O-R-Y.

 What have been your most recent areas of advocacy for disability civil rights? What do you consider your greatest success?
My greatest success is having a bill named after me, “The Ken Capone Equal Employment Act.” People On the Go of Maryland was the lead organization in getting this important piece of legislation passed. The Equal Employment Act eliminates paying people with disabilities a sub-minimum wage in Maryland.  

 What do you consider your first act of self-advocacy as a child or young adult?
That’s a hard question because I was involved in every decision my parents made for me, which I feel is very important for people with disabilities. That gave me confidence to make decisions. My mother didn’t want me to move out and buy my first condominium, but I made that tough decision to buy it and move out. A couple of years later, I wanted to sell the condominium and buy a single family house. My mother wanted me to stay in the condominium. I made the decision to sell it and bought the house. After a couple of years in the house, my mother’s health deteriorated, so I built an in-law suite on my house, and mom stayed with me for the remainder of her life.

 How has advocacy given meaning to your life?
Self-advocacy has given me the knowledge, confidence, and the assurance in myself to assist other people with disabilities in learning how important advocacy is for everyone, not just for people with disabilities. Self-advocacy skills have given me the ability to live the life that I dreamt about as a child. Being employed has given me the life of my own choosing.

 If you could define advocacy in a single sentence, what would be your definition?
Advocacy is the empowerment of people to obtain the knowledge to achieve their goals and dreams in life.

In these troubling times, what gives you hope?
I am seeing more institutions close around the country. Virginia just closed one. I am seeing more states ending the practice of paying people a sub-minimum wage, and ending sheltered workshops. I am seeing more states becoming employment-first states. Employment First is a movement to deliver meaningful employment, fair wages, and career advancement for people with disabilities.

I believe that whether you were born with a disability or without, we truly want the same thing: to be employed, contributing citizens; homeowners; and to have relationships and families. Today children who are born with a disability have a better chance at all of these things than those of us born 50 years ago.

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Jeneva and Robert Stone on a recent visit to the Senate Office Buildings.

We hope you enjoyed this installment of Sharing the Journey with Jeneva, a new feature on our Little Lobbyists blog. Through these interviews we will share the advocacy journeys of caregiver/parents and disability self-advocates, inspiring us to forge ahead together. Send an email to Jeneva if you have any questions you'd like to see, or if you'd like to be interviewed for a future installment of this series! 

Jeneva Stone is the manager of the Little Lobbyists blog. She's worked as a teacher, a government editor, and a Hill staffer. Jeneva is also a writer, with numerous publications in poetry and nonfiction. She lives with her son Robert, who has complex medical needs and disabilities, her husband Roger, their two cats and a dog in Bethesda, Maryland. Her second child, Edith, is currently a student at Middlebury College. 

Simon on the first day of school this year.

Like all moms, I think my kid is pretty special. My son Simon has an amazing sense of humor and can find joy in every day. He draws hundreds of hearts on post-its and leaves them all around the house for his family and friends to find so we remember that he loves us. He’s great at Mario Kart, and he loves to go swimming. Simon also has Cerebral Palsy, Epilepsy, Hydrocephalus, Autism, and a unique genetic disorder. He has physical and intellectual disabilities. 

For 13 years as Simon’s mom and advocate, I’ve used the term “special” a lot. Unfortunately, I’ve used it less often to describe my awesome kid and more often to try to get him the things he needs just to be able to do the same things as other kids, like going to school and the park.  

Special education for learning.
Special needs equipment for getting around.
Special needs activities for being included.

Even though I use the term “special” so frequently to describe things Simon needs, the truth is that NONE of these things are actually special – they are necessary. Everyone needs to learn, get around, and be included. What is special is that people with disabilities and those who love them have to ask, and advocate, and plead, and push for every little ordinary thing. Even things as basic as public restrooms.

Many children with disabilities like my son need access to changing tables long past the point baby changing tables can support their weight, and there are no larger tables available. Putting a child on a bathroom floor is unsanitary and undignified. Changing an older child inside a vehicle is not private enough. As parents and caregivers we do everything we can to protect our children’s dignity and privacy; so when a change is needed families are often forced to go home. This limits our ability to go out and stay out in our community, and it limits our children’s opportunities to be included, have fun, and just be kids.    

Children with disabilities aren’t the only people impacted by this lack of restroom accessibility. Kids with disabilities grow up to be adults with disabilities who want to work and be a part of their communities. Through their service to our country, many veterans become disabled, and they deserve to come home to a community they can fully access. If we’re lucky, we will all age and with age comes disability. If we want to “age in place,” that place needs to accommodate our basic needs. Disability is a part of life.

Maryland State Senator Chris West (MD 42 -R) with Robert from Little Lobbyists chat outside the hearing room.

Using a public restroom isn’t a special need, it’s a necessity. This is why many states are now proposing bills that mandate adult changing equipment be included in the renovation or new construction of public buildings. Recently, I attended a hearing in Maryland for one such bill (SB 44) to support those testifying and to talk to my state legislators about why they should support this bill. My state senator Chris West (MD 42-R), who is a member of the Finance Committee where the bill was being introduced, even pointed out that many public places have already renovated bathrooms to include gender neutral/family areas which could easily accommodate adult changing tables. These tables fold flat against the wall and take no space when not in use.

None of us like talking about our need to use the restroom because, frankly, it’s uncomfortable and embarrassing. As a result, I was extra impressed with the bravery of those who showed up at the bill hearing to testify about their very personal needs. Not only did they show up, they waited quite some time for their turn to speak, despite the fact that – as one self advocate pointed out – there was no public restroom accessible to them in the Maryland Senate office building and many of them were in need of a change.

Here is some of what they had to say:   

“This Bill is an important step forward for people with disabilities to participate in employment and community access. … People with disabilities should be able to go out and enjoy the community without worrying if there will be a place where they can get clean.” - Ken Capone, Director of People On the Go of Maryland

“My disability does not prevent me from being in the community, but not being able to care for my personal hygiene does.” - Amanda, speaking on a panel with the Arc of Maryland

“I live my life everyday with no place for me to change, and that causes embarrassment for me. There ought to be a changing table here instead of telephones.” [in reference to the bank of obsolete landlines located in front of the restrooms near the hearing room] - Donna, speaking on a panel with the Maryland Developmental Disabilities Council

“I want to use the public restroom just like everyone else in my community. I am a registered and active voter.” - Robert, Little Lobbyists

Advocates from the Maryland Developmental Disabilities Council, the Arc of Maryland and Little Lobbyists waiting for their turn to testify in support of Maryland’s Senate bill 330.

Access for people with disabilities isn’t a special need; it’s a civil right. Here are some links to state bills supporting access to public restrooms (send us a message if we’re missing any so we can add to this list!). Please let your legislators know you support these bills and all civil rights for people with disabilities: A simple email or phone call can help us solve a simple problem with a big impact. And, if your state doesn’t yet have a bill for this? Suggest one (there are lots of examples below)! 

To find out how to contact your legislators (in any state), please visit: https://www.usa.gov/elected-officials 

Arizona (Already passed! Call to say thanks!): HB 2113
https://kjzz.org/content/929856/arizona-gov-ducey-signs-adult-changing-table-bill-law
And check out Dignified Changes, the advocacy group that got the Arizona bill passed and is working to expand this initiative.

California (Already passed! Call to say thanks!): AB 662
https://leginfo.legislature.ca.gov/faces/billNavClient.xhtml?bill_id=201520160AB662

Florida: SB 1106 / HB 669
https://www.floridatoday.com/story/news/newswire/2019/12/24/bill-seeks-require-adult-changing-tables-florida-public-restrooms/2740711001/

Georgia: SB 125
http://www.legis.ga.gov/Legislation/en-US/display/20192020/SB/125

Maryland: SB 44
http://mgaleg.maryland.gov/mgawebsite/Legislation/Details/SB0044?ys=2020RS

New Hampshire (Already passed! Call to say thanks!): HB 628
https://legiscan.com/NH/text/HB628/id/1851806

New York (Already passed! Call to say thanks!): A03940
https://www.governor.ny.gov/news/governor-cuomo-announces-passage-legislation-ensure-equal-access-diaper-changing-stations

Ohio: SB 249 / GA 133
https://radio.wosu.org/post/ohio-bill-would-require-more-adult-changing-tables-restrooms#stream/0

Oklahoma: “Max’s Law”
www.facebook.com/MickeyDollensOK/videos/3034829759892397/

Pennsylvania: HB 117
https://www.wesa.fm/post/advocates-say-adult-changing-table-bill-promises-dignity#stream/0

Jessica Fox and her daughter Claire, age 4

I am a mom.

When my daughter was born with a heart condition requiring a high level of medical care, I became her advocate.

When I realized there were many kids like her, unable to access the resources they need to survive and thrive, I became a leader.

The truth is, I never thought I would be a health care expert meeting with legislators in our state Capitol, but now I am. Because I have to be.

Too often, our policies on health care are made by people who do not understand what it's like to care for a child who has had more doctor's appointments than play dates. That is why I started speaking up and fighting to change our state law.

I started speaking up because of my daughter, Claire, a very happy four-year-old child. She loves to tease her siblings and will pull out all the stops to make them laugh. She loves music and she loves to play dress up. She currently attends an inclusive pre-K program, where she signs her best friend’s name “poppy” by using sign language for “bubble".

In many ways, she’s just a kid living her best life; but unlike most kids, she has spent more than her fair share of time in hospitals, racking up millions of dollars of medical bills in the first two weeks of her life.

We were very fortunate to be covered by my employer’s commercial insurance plan to pay for her medical care. In addition, due to Claire’s extended hospitalization, we also qualified for our state’s Medicaid plan, called TennCare, as a secondary policy. This was necessary because as great as our insurance was, it did not cover everything Claire needed, like her therapies, medical equipment, and surgeries.

Then, one day, just prior to Claire’s 4th birthday, we lost her Medicaid because we no longer qualified. Just like that. I appealed not once, but twice and lost. How could a disabled child be denied access life-saving medical care in America?

I sat in the grocery store parking lot crying one day, and I knew I had to do something.

I have to confess that a year ago, I had no idea who my State Representative was. We all start somewhere. I began a letter writing campaign and asked everyone I knew to join me.

I connected with groups like Little Lobbyists, a family-led organization advocating for children with complex medical needs and disabilities, where I felt encouraged and a sense of community. I made calls to my State Senator. I reached out to several agencies. I attended health care forums. I took notes as candidates campaigned for the mid-term elections.  After tucking my kids in bed, I spent my late nights reading and learning about our state government. I learned about the Katie Beckett program, a Medicaid waiver program that allows medically complex children to live at home with their parents instead of an institution, by waiving the parent’s income. I learned that Tennessee was the only state in the country without this program.

I told my story in several newspaper and television interviews. This past October, my daughter’s face was the front-page center piece article of our local newspaper, talking about why we need the Katie Beckett program.  I joined four other families with children like mine, and we took off to our state Capitol. That day, my husband and I took our daughters to meet various lawmakers who agreed to sponsor a bill that we hope to become a Katie Beckett program in Tennessee.

I remember we sat in a legislator’s office, next to Claire as she rocked in his rocking chair. When you show up with your kid at the state Capitol, legislators are forced to see them with their own eyes. Claire is not a number or statistic; she’s a real child.

Jessica Fox with her family visiting Tennessee State Representative Sam Whitson

Our bill is now progressing in Tennessee’s House of Representatives. This bill, if passed, will ensure Claire can access the medical care she and so many other kids need and for us, that means we give them every fighting chance to reach her their highest potential.

This is why we need to engage our lawmakers. They work for us. They need to understand how policies affect our lives. We are the experts on our children. We are the experts on policies that affect our children.

We are constituents. We are real people, who care about our loved ones. We are spouses and siblings and friends and neighbors, and yes, we are parents. It is time for us to speak up and lead.

Some of the Tennessee families fighting for a Katie Beckett Medicaid waiver in their state.

Jessica gave this talk on the Spark Stage at the Urig Summit in Nashville on March 30, 2019.